YOU Don’t Have A Problem And I Don’t Have A Solution

Published on 2 August 2023 at 17:08

The whole of the modern living is very fast to diagnose and pathologise, to find and tell you what’s wrong with you. Why you need more. Why you need something else. Why you need it NOW. Why you have issues and problems and how to solve them with this very specific product...

Before you read this:

  1. Just so you know, this is not a sexy blog 😁 It is long, with very few pictures. Just plain good old text like in the good old days.

  2. You can listen to the same article in a podcast form and use it as a short guided process, working together with the vibration of my voice and music.  

So, here it goes:

The whole of the modern living is very fast to diagnose and pathologise, to find and tell you what’s wrong with you. Why you need more. Why you need something else. Why you need it NOW. Why you have issues and problems and how to solve them with this very specific product. Why your body isn’t good enough for summer and you urgently need to loose weight to have a summer body. (Excuse me, what?…)

Why your skin isn’t good enough and needs to be treated with this special 25-step routine and covered with this unique foundation to battle aging. Like aging is some kind of disease…

Why your hair is too flat, to frizzy, too brown, too blond, or, haven forbid, grey. Why you need a new phone with a better camera to improve your feed quality. Because…. Because it is very important, don’t you know?

Why you need this smart gadget to measure your sleep data because without it you can’t possibly tap into your body. That would be silly. Don’t be silly.

Why you need to take these 50 supplements, because your smart body can’t possibly take the nutrition from the food you eat. Why you continuously need to optimise everything about you because otherwise you are not worthy. 


My heart cries and aches when I see the same happening in the health, wellness and healing circles.

I am so tired of all the (healing) marketing telling us that we have a problem and they know how to fix it. Marketing strategies that tell us we need to create scarcity to sell our services. Marketing that tells us that this is very urgent and you MUST get on this emergency train NOW otherwise you’ll miss out.

And you don’t want to miss out, do you? Do you?

You still have trauma trapped in your body, you need to work on yourself more. You have suppressed anger, you need to push through resistance and express it - here, hit this pillow. You haven’t cried hard enough in a session? You are just resisting. You need to let go. Let go of your tension, otherwise I cannot help you. Stop resisting. Take up space, why can’t you? Do you feel better yet? And what about now? 

You must get better… Better… This unachievable better…


The amount of times I’ve been told by different business coaches that I need to define a problem and offer a very specific solution. I need to create more scarcity and urgency in a way how I talk about my offerings, so people will experience the fear of missing out. I need to simplify the language I use and present myself as a person I am not so it feels more accessible. I need to funnel and manipulate peoples subconscious patterning to make them want to work with me….. Wait a minute… I mean…. Did you see what my work is all about?….


I wish it could have been another way… 

I wish it could have been another way…

 

What if YOU are not the problem?

What if there is absolutely nothing wrong about you? Absolutely nothing. 

What if there is nothing to be fixed, or made better about you? 

What if you smart body’s security system does everything with one simple reason - to keep you safe? And there is nothing wrong with this reason?

What if you are not missing out on anything? Ever. 

What if you don’t have to chaise anything or anyone? 

What if there is no actual urgency to get somewhere or to achieve something? 

What if you don’t have to do it the old way or any way at all?



What if you can access the physiology of wholeness and ease without any gadgets? 

What if you could receive support from the animate forces around you? 

What if you could re-enchant your Body? 

What if you could re-enchant the Land? 

What if your skin as a sensory perceptive apparatus could expand its boundaries way beyond the physicality of your Body? 

What if you could perceive through your hair? 

What if you could merge with the wind and dissolving skies? 

What if you could be an individualised human AND feel connected to the vastness? 

What if the vastness was alive within you? 

What if you could live magic every day? 

With the right pace, right distance, choice, discernment, agency, and reciprocity. 


What if you could architect a body-mind, a somatic structure that is moving with it’s internal somatic intervals and tides?

What if you could step out of the linearity of modern living? Even if it’s just for a moment…

Even if it’s just for a moment…

I wish it could have been another way…

But that would have been not smart for the sales, would it?..


I am definitely not here to tell you, that you have a problem and I know how to fix it. I am not here to tell you that you urgently need to join any of my containers because you need this resolution happen NOW. There is no urgency. No urgency at all. Can you feel it? No urgency. 

When and if you are ready I am here to meet you at the intersection of body, spirit, science, and mystery. I am here to hold space so you can meet safety and danger dynamics of any part of your lifetime and timeline. I am here to shift the paradigm towards simplicity and efficiency of human experience. I am here to supply regulated physiology and momentum of regulation. I am here to help you create the new conditions that allow for resolution. I am here to help you ride the waves of Imprints of undigested life experiences, outdated inherited threat responses, and internalized collective and systemic difficulties. I am here to hold space for you as your incomplete threat responses are completed and unmet needs are met. I am here to hold space for you as you reconnect to your Blueprints and expand into your Embodiment. And there is no rush in this…

 

I am your guide through the Bodyverse.

I am your guide through Liminal Spaces.  

Into the depths of the underworld and the hights of the upperworld.

Driven by curiosity. 

I value ease, choice, right timing, transparency and reciprocity. 


I trust that YOU can feel the body behind my work.

I trust that YOU can feel the dripping energetics behind my words.

I trust that YOU can feel the sap under my hands.

Healing happens when we have choice, voice and access to our power. 


I would love to hear your thoughts, feels, opinions, experiences on this.

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